Remember that great vacation I went on way back in February? Sigh, I do. The trip where I finally got a family picture in front of that castle. Such a great moment for me. I think about that vacation almost daily.
Isn't the memory a truly great thing? I swear, if i close my eyes, and really really try, I'm right back in that condo, by the pool. Or waiting in line for my most favorite line. Or Trying on yet another set of ears on baby Grace.
Through all the bad days we have had around here in the last year, I have found myself going right back to that trip, or (and yes I will admit to 2 great vacations within 6 months of each other) new Brunswick trip home. Thank goodness for the happy memories, right?
I think it would be such a shame to let those memories go to waste. You know, I admit, when 1 thing goes wrong in my life, I tend to think EVERYTHING is wrong. And true, usually when it rains it pours. But really? There isnt ONE THING I can be greatful for?
Yes, I've had a sick baby lots this year, shes had one surgery, and a list of friends that have fell apart in front of me- BUT- I've seen and done enough good things this year that can at least pull through another day. It could be so easy for me- or you- to feel bad for ourselves.. SO VERY BAD for ourselves. And YES, I think you really are allowed to for a bit. But Isn't there something your pretty grateful for? And I mean truly grateful for?
I know we cant always have a vacation. They cost money (shame really) We might not always be able to think of a fancy night out or a truly exotic experience, but what do you have?
Do you have a pet that has become your family, maybe waits for you to come home? What about a baby that lights up when they see your face? One REALLY great snap shot of ONE.SINGLE. MOMENT. That was exactly perfect for you?
Its so tragic that we have to experience death in this world. Sickness. Betrayal. Heartbreak. But If memory serves you right, and I hope it does, you've got SOMETHING.
Yes, Memories are a great thing. They boil down to the moments that we will hold on to and they cover the ones we cant let go of..
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